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The Painful Truth About Partnership in The Pandemic

The Painful Truth About Partnership in The Pandemic

As a couples therapist and coach, sometimes I feel like I’m on the frontlines of a pandemic of individualism--especially when I'm facing how challenging it is for couples to think in a more complex, systemic way about their relationship. It is so hard for people...

The Mess is Where the Magic Is: My Daughter Turned 10

The Mess is Where the Magic Is: My Daughter Turned 10

My youngest child, my daughter, turned 10 years old in early December.  Ten years seems like a great reflection point, and I’ve been trying to grasp how having this girl in my life for a decade has impacted me. I’ve come across one of her (many) enormous gifts...