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When We Force Pregnancy On Women And Girls: Some Thoughts As A Mother And Therapist

by ellenboeder | Jun 26, 2022 | Uncategorized

I had a client once who was deciding if she wanted to have a baby or not (she was not pregnant at the time).  She was concerned that I could not support her in this deliberation because she had seen (through social media and public speaking) how much I valued my role...
The Mess is Where the Magic Is: My Daughter Turned 10

The Mess is Where the Magic Is: My Daughter Turned 10

by ellenboeder | Jan 10, 2021 | Uncategorized

My youngest child, my daughter, turned 10 years old in early December.  Ten years seems like a great reflection point, and I’ve been trying to grasp how having this girl in my life for a decade has impacted me. I’ve come across one of her (many) enormous gifts...
Four Reasons Mothers are Overwhelmed and Underinspired, and What To Do About It

Four Reasons Mothers are Overwhelmed and Underinspired, and What To Do About It

by ellenboeder | Sep 21, 2017 | attachment, empowerment, Feminism, health, Marriage, Motherhood, psychology, relationship

Family action shot above, though not a moment of overwhelm. Just a little birthday celebration for me at our favorite creek spot.  My son is not grimacing in pain, but making that face because he knows how to crack me up.  If you are a mother, I am 100%...
How Losing My Independence Got Me Something Better

How Losing My Independence Got Me Something Better

by ellenboeder | Jun 29, 2017 | autoimmune, Marriage, Motherhood, relationship

*Yes, that is my son holding a muffin cup in his mouth that he made into a parachute with some string and a stick* My husband was ready to have a baby before I was.  I think it was like three days after our wedding festivities ended when he told me he wanted a...
Hi. I’m a Mother. Even If I Don’t Look Like One To You.

Hi. I’m a Mother. Even If I Don’t Look Like One To You.

by ellenboeder | Apr 21, 2017 | empathy, empowerment, Feminism, Motherhood, psychology

“I never thought you were a mother.” The woman who spoke these words to me had only seen me in passing at a yoga class we both attend on a random basis. That is the whole sum of our interactions. And yet she had formed a little story of who I am. She’s not...
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